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This is entirely anecdotal, but everyone that I have ever spoken to in real life that was poly seemed to be poly because the original relationship was failing. They were no longer getting any attention or affection from their partner and instead of moving on, decided the way forward was to add more people so that they could get the attention they weren’t getting from the original partner. I met a woman on a dating app a few years ago that was looking for a boyfriend despite having a husband and a boyfriend already. One day she was texting me that she was bored and lonely. Her husband and boyfriend were both in the same room with her but everyone was ignoring each other on their phones. Crazy stuff. I’m sure some people are able to make those situations successful, but it’s gotta be a minority of attempts.

As a former teenager and father of teenagers, I can attest to the fact that teenagers do suck. But it’s tough being a teen and trying to find a place that you feel like you belong. Feeling accepted by someone that you think of as equal or better than yourself is really important at that time. With you no longer being in that phase of your life, it’s pretty normal for you to see shitty teenage behavior and want to call it out for what it is.