Yeah, it’s pretty weird and fucked up IMO.

We don’t want him back, send him to Antarctica.

Lol, see, there is good advice on a greentext community.

I think it’s the opposite, she’s a relationship anarchist and I can’t cope with this kind of relationship and how seemingly little importance I have in her life sometimes. I could do poly with a primary partner, but not RA.

Fuck, I was kinda doing alright, making friends, getting out, part of a big kink/group sex community, then I met my current GF, I haven’t been to a sex party in months, I feel miserable 50% of the time, honestly most difficult person I’ve ever been with because of the way she sees life and relationships, wondering if I should break up with her.

Only thing is I think I’m fooling myself Re how miserable I was