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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • This you?

    Just because you’re a moderator for a minority group community that is the target of attacks doesn’t mean that everyone is out to get you.

    It’s infuriating that you’re more willing to alienate allies by painting them as bigots than you are to educate people or answer their questions.

    Simply labeling anything you don’t feel like dealing with as ‘transphobic’ and hiding in a filter bubble doesn’t solve anything. Enforcing arbitrary purity tests on people outside of your community is toxic behavior and does nothing but create animosity.

    Yeah, that’s telling a mod how to run an instance for your preferences and not for the community it’s for. That’s why I think you deserve the new ban regardless of your OP.

    If you want to be taught, you’re being spoon fed a lesson. Open up the hangar! 🥄😮



  • Bad money drives out good, even if your coin is unshaved. How do you tell if someone is sealioning or asking in good faith? I don’t anymore, they all go in the same basket for my sanity. The kinds of questions commonly asked have been gone over again and again and the answers are readily available. Demanding that questioners who can’t be bothered to research be engaged with by people sick of sorting out if a questioner is lazy or purposefully awful is pretty toxic. Nobody owes you a damn thing, so stop acting entitled to the efforts and mental space of others.